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January 28, 2016 By Evia

New Mommy Tyra Banks! The Gritty Slice & Nuances of “I Want a Man on My Level” & Other Wordings

Tyra and ErikI was thrilled to read this morning that Tyra Banks and her long-term boyfriend, Erik Asla (Norwegian photographer) are the new parents of a baby boy via a surrogate mother!! ARTICLE  I was sad for Tyra last year when I read that she so passionately wanted to have children but was unable to conceive. At 41 then, her biological clock was taking its last gasps. She was undergoing the IVF treatments that she described as ‘traumatic.’

Well, this is an example of how money CAN actually buy life. LOL!  Women with her resources can pay another woman to carry their fertilized egg. But hey, being a surrogate mom has become a lucrative new profession for some women. This is a win-win situation. This is a profession that even some older women can engage in because under the right circumstances, a healthy enough older woman (I’ve read of a few cases of women in their sixties doing this!!) can carry a fertilized egg and birth the child of a younger woman whose body is impaired in some way.  I tell ya: A woman’s body is a magnificent creation! LOL!

As a marriage advocate, [Read more…]

Filed Under: "Must Read" Links, Being Proactive is Key, BWIR in News, Commitment, Compatibility Factors, CQLL (compatible, quality, loving, lovable), Darren, Dating & Marrying "Down", Issues with Aging & Conceiving Children for Women and Men

October 12, 2015 By Evia

Smart Women Never Lose the Lesson

Soldier and girlfriendThanks, CH for pic of this American serviceman and his girlfriend.

They look so content to be with each other. It’s great to see people looking like this these days. LOL
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Recently received the note below from a reader, who is wrestling with a quite different human experience.

She thinks she has lost at love, but she hasn’t lost anything worth having. It never existed, except in her mind. A delusion. I shudder though at the 5+ years of precious womanly time she invested with this male. Whew! Since I wanted to do a post, I decided to write a response to her note and feature it here as a ‘slice-and-dice,’ of how failure-prone thinking directs lives towards failure, in the hopes that my analysis may be of service to others.

No person deserves to be treated like this. We were born noble, to be treated nobly, with respect, but failure-prone thinking will always invite predatory people and situations into our surroundings and make them comfortable around us.

We should all know that on the securing-a-quality-romantic-relationship front, 5 years of time for a woman is like 15 for a man because the reality is that there’s a shrinking pool of quality men available for women as we age. Blame it on evolutionary wiring and the life cycle, but the fact is that lots of men are surface-oriented, looking for younger women. There are CQLL men for women of all ages, but the reality is that the pool shrinks as we get older. Life is fair to the extent that [Read more…]

Filed Under: Common Sense--Just Move on, CQLL (compatible, quality, loving, lovable), Darren, Darren & Evia's Relationship Factors, Issues with Aging & Conceiving Children for Women and Men, Meeting the ONE Mr. CQLL

May 30, 2015 By Evia

Marriage Congrats, Must Read Article re Black Women’s Wealth Status

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Thanks ES for the link to this  couple’s beautiful nuptials.

Lorraine and Will

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 CONGRATS! CONGRATS! CONGRATS! Wishing you all the best that life can bring!

(Photos by Cains Camera)

And I love what the blogger Chic Brown Brides is doing by showcasing these weddings and focusing on marriage matters.

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My 90-year old aunt had a large birthday party last weekend (Memorial Day weekend) down in Tennessee and Darren offered to drive me down to it. So, we went for a long weekend. Darren likes driving long distances; I don’t. But I love to [Read more…]

Filed Under: "Must Read" Links, BWIMarriarge--Pic & Congratulations, CQLL (compatible, quality, loving, lovable), Darren, Dating & Marrying "Down", Marriage & Wealth

August 11, 2013 By Evia

Spotlight on Baroness Von Neumann–The Life of Another Black Woman who Married European Royalty & More Okey-Dokes

Felicia, I had heard of her before–in general–but THANKS for all of this specific info spotlighting: Baroness Monica von Neumann  

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“As a small child growing up in the oftimes dreary world that is Detroit, never in young Monica’s wildest dreams did she imagine that she would be given a royal title, not to mention be a dazzling doyenne of Hollywood, Palm Springs and Europe.

As a youngster, Monica’s family moved from Detroit to Los Angeles where she studied dance and modeled for Yves St. Laurent and Dior which took her to Europe in her teens. Her beauty and poise granted her access to circles which included Sonny Bono, who introduced her to Austrian Baron John von Neumann — the first importer of Volkswagens to the U.S. and son of the doctor to the King of England and Spain.

After a few years, Monica went to a Swiss finishing school under the tutledge of Baroness Heidi von Salvisburg of Vienna and again ran into Baron von Neumann. The two fell in love, were married where she gained her title, ‘Baroness’ and eventually had a daughter. [Read more…]

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November 3, 2010 By Evia

Marriage Congrats! & SOME BW “Just Don’t Get It”–The Rest of Us Must Move ON! BWIR–“Falling for Eve”

Marriage Congrats to Ebony and Jon!!  And THANKS, Ebony, for all of the BWIR pics and links you’ve supplied me for the Ezine.  Wishing you and Jon a long and blissful marriage and many healthy, bouncing babies. LOL! Ebony, when I looked at your wedding pics, I could tell that the two  of you have great chemistry and genuinely like each other–not just love. There’s a certain comfort level that you two have with each other that is apparent. I can feel it!  Wedding Pics SITE  

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Ebony says,

Hello, Evia. 

I promised you that I would send wedding pics and here they are. 

In a world of Newsweek articles about why black women except Michelle Obama can’t get married, I got married.  Jon and I were married in Connecticut on a lovely Sunday morning.  It’s been three weeks and I am very, very happy with my choice of husband.  We have great conversations, we laugh a lot.  We [Read more…]

Filed Under: BWinterracial Marriage Pic & Congrats, Common Sense--Just Move on, CQLL (compatible, quality, loving, lovable), Dr. Barbara Sizemore, Formal Education Raises Marriage Success Rate, Importance of Culture


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